Men’s infatuations with older women start as soon as they’re old enough to know what women are. And this curiosity surrounding the potential for pleasure with maturer females stays with them until, well — the day comes when there aren’t any women left in the world older than them. Frankly, men are initially drawn to older women (for men’s purposes, ‘older’ means at least 10 years senior) for sex. For example, David, a 26-year-old web designer, has been seeing a woman of 43 for nearly a year. She’s reasonably affluent — has a three bedroom flat in Mumbai. She also has a good career, is intellectual, very attractive and David feels that she is ‘the best I’ve ever had.’
Can anyone ever even think for a minute that a 25-year-old man makes a play for a 40-year-old woman because he’s interested in the Habitat crockery she may have accrued over time? Of course not. Older women tend to bring with them a wealth of experience, confidence and tricks between the sheets that a young woman can only dream to aspire. Finding a man who doesn’t find the prospect of an experienced lover an exciting one, would be a very difficult task.
However, being an older woman doesn’t necessarily guarantee good sex — if the woman was not good in bed when she was young, for her to become a fully qualified love-goddess at 35 is slightly difficult? Yet, older women give the impression that they’re better in bed because they’re more comfortable with themselves. All those hang-ups about having a slight tummy or stretch marks tend to become less important with age.
Of course, sex is not the only allure of a younger man, older woman’s partnership is important too. In fact, it’s there experience in the life that works as a big turn-on for them. Mature women are, well, mature – they are older and wiser in their world view, and that’s what a young man finds very attractive.
By the time a woman reaches her mid-thirties, she has seen a lot in life and has handled a lot of crisis situations too. Thanks to which, she’s acquired confidence , patience, the art of conversation , her own individual perspective on life and, most importantly, wisdom , which is again considered a very sexy trait by men. Older women generally know what they want from life and in love and this can be refreshing after the annoying and frustrating relationship games younger women generally play. And last but not the least, older women also tend to be richer!
